Yeah, I'm .. just super sensitive about it, because of past issues. So, instead of trying to be 'honest' about what gender I am and what my name is or any of that I just tell no one, and let everyone know I have identity issues and if that's a problem they can ... Go away. I used to get called a liar on a regular basis because of it, and because my issue is not a plain black and white, I was born one sex and identify as the other- I feel like a liar no matter what I tell people.
I don't like the thought of coming across the wrong way either, and it happens to me often enough that trust me - if there was any confusion I'd try to understand once we established it. But, I don't... Generally have a hard time understanding other people, mostly it's the other way around. So, it's still entirely up to you - but just never feel like you're not welcome to comment if you do wnat to, okay?
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Date: 2009-05-01 06:07 am (UTC)I don't like the thought of coming across the wrong way either, and it happens to me often enough that trust me - if there was any confusion I'd try to understand once we established it. But, I don't... Generally have a hard time understanding other people, mostly it's the other way around. So, it's still entirely up to you - but just never feel like you're not welcome to comment if you do wnat to, okay?